lol I've had two male cats that just didn't want to be coddled, hugged, or petted much -- or only when they had the need. All the rest were so huggy and luvy and happy to hang out with me and or my son.
Aww, he's just kind of sitting there like, "I am a cat, but I am the master of this house. I am also not fat, just fluffy. ... Oh noes! Somebody is taking my picture! DO NOT WANT!"